Finding Balance – Update on business moves and life


Hey Now!!! 


It’s been a while since I’ve updated you on what’s going with me. Not like you’ve been waiting on the edge of your seats but hey I at least owe you an update. 
I get so excited about other people’s hopes dreams and aspirations I often get sidetracked assisting others achieve their goals. The feeling of helping another realize their dreams is amazing. It naturally fuels me to wake up every morning and conquer another goal. I’ve come to the realization that no one is going to bring MY DREAMS to light but me. Saying them out loud, creating business plans and time lines is great but if I’m not taking any actions than its all a waste of paper and space on my laptop. 
Action, Focus and Follow through is what it takes to bring my vision to life. To save you time and your eyes from straining to read my long list of aspirations. I’ll list what’s I’m dabbling in these days.
               Getting a grip on marriage. My husband and I are learning to work as a team to achieve longterm goals.
               Catching up to my son’s comprehension of life. He knows way more than I think he knows
               Joined a travel membership club. World Ventures allows me to travel with my friends for Costco prices. My family is in need of a vacation 🙂  http://lachanel.dreamtripslife.com/dreamtripslife
               Perfecting the art of Marketing as the Marketing Manager for What’s Funny Live. Check out the weekly comedy shows. www.whatsfunnylive.com
               In talks with a well known radio station to handle marketing for an upcoming event.
               Working on turning my 1st love ‘dancing’ into a profitable biz. You’ll hear more about this real soon.
               My t-shirt line has really taken off, now I’m hustling to keep up with the growth.
I have about 5 more things. Lets leave something to the imagination. HaHa. I feel better now, like best friends that haven’t spoken to each other in months.

I’m growing, failing, succeeding, growing and progressing just like you. You’re not alone sweetheart. There are many small battles to be won before we get our big break.
Check out the businesses I’m working with now. If something interest you shoot me an email. chanel@bgrise2power.com
Many Blessing!!! 
Keep moving forward. 

Flex Your Brain Muscles

Source: Success Magazine 
It’s a common myth that we use only 10 percent of our brains. Actually, we use all of it. But just like your body, you can improve your mental fitness to increase your brain power and keep it healthy as you age.
Perfect your posture. Try solving a problem while slouching versus sitting upright and see how it impacts your mental clarity. Now sit up straight.
Use trapped downtime. Plan ahead with an MP3 or iPod loaded with a good book or advice from a personal-development expert for when you’re stuck in traffic, in line or in a waiting room.
Tell a good story. Sharing experiences in a compelling and fun way sharpens your mental recall.
Mix up your routine. Take a different route to work, or eat your salad after the main course. Changing your typical way of doing things tells your brain to wake up and pay attention.
Write. Writing notes, poetry, stories or in a journal helps your memory, clarifies your thinking and engages your creativity.
Work on your intuition. Every time you follow through on a hunch or listen to your inner dialogue, you are working your intuitive muscle.
Walk. The rhythmic pace of walking gets you breathing and limbered up, creating a physical and mental state conducive for clear thinking.
Laugh. Endorphins released when you laugh lower your stress and can help your long-term health. Ever notice you feel better after a big laugh?

Happy Women’s History Month – Fly Weave, Weak Heart

From the baby momma’s in the hood to the young women in the corporate office with no kids we all are valuable and must treat ourselves as such. It is important that we never let our mistakes stress us and taunt us to the point that we believe that one mistakes has stopped us from progressing.

At this point in my life I’m very concerned with my health. My biggest fear is my husband and I dying early and leaving my son parentless. While many may say anything can happen and you can’t worry about things like that. Today, our parents aren’t living to be 90 years old, because of health issues, lack of health insurance, stress and a host of other contributors, our parents are dying in their 40’s and 50’s.

This blog is about rising to power and taking responsibility for success as well as failure. It would be foolish for us to believe that health isn’t apart of success. What’s the point of working hard towards something only to clunk out from a bad heart. Health and wealth go hand and hand.

Here are some tips from an article documenting the health habits of people from the healthiest areas of the world. Check it out, it’s important that we take care of ourselves so we can take care of our children. They need us.

Healthy Lifestyle Habits

Buettner and his team of researchers have identified nine lifestyle factors common among Blue Zone inhabitants, all of which are associated with an extra 3-6 years of quality life. The secret to vitality and longevity is incorporating these habits into your daily life. Adopting all nine of these habits — known as the Power9 — is not necessary to experience the benefits of increased health and longevity; according to Buettner, practicing just six of the Power9 will deliver 90% of the benefits. His book, The Blue Zones: Lessons for Living Longer From the People Who’ve Lived the Longest, provides practical guidelines for setting up your home, your social life, and your work place to help add more quality years to your life.
Surprisingly, only one of the Power9 deals with exercise, and a full third involve social factors. In fact, says Buettner, the single most important thing you can do is extend your life is to build your own “Right Tribe.” The world’s longest-lived people were either born into or choose to associate with the right people — those who provide emotional support and the motivation to engage in healthy activities. Research shows that if you surround yourself with people who are active and eat healthy foods, you are more likely to adopt these habits yourself.

The Power9

1. Move naturally
Find ways to move mindlessly and adopt a lifestyle that makes moving unavoidable. In many Blue Zones, walking is the main mode of transportation. People also engage in some sort of moderate daily activity such as gardening, walking, or playing with their children. Buettner believes that many Americans exercise too hard; our bodies were not made to withstand years of heavy pounding and high-intensity physical activity. Regular, low-intensity activity — doing something light every day — may be more beneficial. Focus on activities you enjoy — even something as seemingly simple as a daily walk can provide health benefits.
2. Know your purpose in life
Having a meaningful reason to get out of bed in the morning can help reduce stress and ward off disease. Studies show that people who retire early often see a decline in their health and even experience higher mortality rates than those who continue to work. If you enjoy your job, keep working as long as possible. Volunteer work and community service can also help provide a sense of purpose.
3. Downshift
People in Blue Zones typically have less stress in their lives. Look for ways to simplify your life: slow down, get plenty of rest, and take vacations. Try to punctuate your day with periods of calm, whether that means meditating, taking a relaxing bath, or carving out some time for yourself to engage in a hobby.
4. Follow the 80% Rule
As Americans, we’re used to eating until we’re full, but allowing yourself to feel hunger can actually be beneficial. A study involving mice revealed that the appetite-stimulating hormone ghrelin may help fight stress and depression. People in Blue Zones typically stop eating when they are 80% full. Buettner’s book and the Blue Zone web site provide advice on adopting healthier eating habits.
5. Eat a plant-based diet
People in Blue Zones don’t diet; they eat wisely. Blue Zone diets consist of large amounts of locally grown vegetables and less protein than the average American diet. Limit processed foods, meats, fats, and sweets as much as possible. Also drink plenty of fresh water and herbal teas. In Icaria, residents drink high levels of herbal teas that act as diuretics, lower blood pressure, and prevent heart disease.
6. Drink red wine
Red wine is high in powerful antioxidants that can help fight cancer, reduce inflammation, and lower cholesterol. In Sardinia, researchers found a red wine with the world’s highest-known levels of antioxidants. Drink red wine consistently and in moderation — a glass or two a day is recommended.
7. Belong to a healthy social network
Having a strong and supportive social system is key to reducing stress and living a healthy life. There is a biological link between social connection and how well our bodies function. Fifteen years ago, the average American had three good friends; that number is now down to two. Our increasingly wired society and busy lifestyles have made us more isolated, which can shave years off our lives. Make an effort to spend time with friends and nurture a face-to-face network instead of just connecting with people online. Proactively build friendships with people who practice healthy habits. Participating in social exercise groups or volunteering are great ways to meet healthy, like-minded individuals.
8. Have a belief system
Having some sort of faith system or spiritual practice has been shown to have health benefits. Participating in a belief system doesn’t have to mean organized religion: Okinawans believe in ancestral worship; yoga and meditation are also forms of non-religious spiritual practices. “People who feel their life is part of a larger plan and are guided by their spiritual values have stronger immune systems, lower blood pressure, a lower risk of heart attack and cancer, and heal faster and live longer,” says Harold G. Koenig, M.D., professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Duke University Medical Center.
9. Put your family first
People in Blue Zones make family a priority and nurture supportive relationships with their loved ones. Studies have shown that the average working American parent spends just 19 minutes a day engaged in childcare. As you work on simplifying your routine, look for new, beneficial activities you can do with your children and extended family members. Complete a craft project together, get the family together for a bike ride, or involve the children in making dinner and choosing healthy foods for the family.
For more information, visit the Blue Zones web site, which features a Vitality Compass for gauging your current state of health and life expectancy.

Get Out the Hood and Explore the World

Young people are too afraid to venture out. There are so many opportunities for growth out here. College isn’t the only option. I encourage youth to check out Ameri corps and the Peace corps. That’s a great opportunity to see the world, help others and raise money for college. Don’t be afraid to leave your hood, believe me it will be there when you get back and you’ll be more equipped to help and enlighten the people there. I gave up an opportunity to study abroad in China when I was in 8th grade. I let fear of the unknown hinder me. After that I never let an opportunity to learn pass me. You don’t need a crew to experience life, truth is everyone can’t go and see what you need to see. Your journey is yours. I went to college solo without knowing anyone. I did an internship in New York and I’ve gone to countless networking events & meetings by myself. Don’t let your fear of being alone hinder you. God has given you all the skills you need to progress and shine.

Be confident in your own abilities.

Check out these links
Americorps
PeaceCorps
Study Abroad

The Secret to Success?

I have a simple message for you this morning. There have been dozen’s of books and seminars claiming to reveal the secret of success but the truth is there is only one person that holds the key. The Key to success is……..

There is no key to success. There are common qualities of successful people. Dedication, Vision, Networking, Optimism and Long work hours. These are qualities that we all are born with or can learn. If there is something that you absolutely don’t want to live without, you will make a way to get it. Just as people do crazy things for love, crazy things must be done to achieve goals. That same enthusiasm you have when you first meet an attractive member of the opposite sex, you need that to achieve goals. Dream about it at night, plan to see it in the morning, find friends that can get you close to it. 

The only thing standing between you and your end goal is your inability to want it bad enough.

Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Don’t be afraid!!!! Take that first step towards the life you want..

LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nas – I Know I Can (Video) 

Lost in Love – How can we save our youth from being dumb in love?

Why are young people putting more time into finding and maintaining relationships than pursuing personal goals? It wasn’t too long ago that I was the young lady deeply in love with a man that was so vividly not for me. All the signs we’re slapping me in my face, PHYSICALLY. So, why did I stay? I stayed because the relationship with my parents was pretty much nonexistent. My mother was an amazing woman but she wasn’t open to girl talk. My father just wasn’t invested. Ok so that leaves a young girl in the inner city trying to figure who she is, what she likes and where her life is going.

I’ve always been a church girl which if preachers new the things I was doing then, they would have locked the doors. I wasn’t a bad girl; I had bit of an attitude, hated for anyone to tell me anything and hated to be accused of wrong doing. That’s typical teenage behavior.  I started having sex pretty early. I wasn’t looking for love but when it got me, I was way too invested for a 15 year old. Not having anyone to talk to probably didn’t help.

Let’s skip the gritty details. Self evaluation is a great tool. Because I didn’t know my worth, I let some lost young man tell me what I was worth. I let him put a price on my body. I sold myself for way below market value. I don’t completely blame him for his jacked up ways. He didn’t have anyone to tell him how valuable he was either. So you have 2 kids that have no idea what love is controlling each other pretending to be in love. This is happening everyday to our young kids. Lost kids are falling in love with other lost kid, which eventually morphs into a tornado of destruction that often leads to reproduction of the storm. Lost kids, have lost babies and continue the cycle until someone is brave enough to say “I’m better than this, this cycle stops now.”

How did I get out? I had to get away from him –  I decided that school was my best option. I’ve always loved reading books, so college just seemed like a natural transition. I applied to 2 schools. I got in and I was ghost. Letting a dude that had no life aspirations keep me stuck wasn’t an option. Besides that my mother wasn’t having a fast tail girl lying around her house. She made it clear way before graduation I needed to do something with my life. I know this situation sounds familiar to a lot of young ladies. Some still stayed at home trying to hold on to the love of a man that would lead to their demise.

I’m fortunate that I had someone to push me. My mother’s love was tough love; regardless it pushed me in the right direction. My mother had made the same mistakes she saw me making but she decided enough was enough. Although she wasn’t up for the girl talk, she was always up for talk about prosperity. I desperately wanted a better life and she pushed me towards it.

What I did miss is someone telling me why I should focus on my school work and future. Everyone says how important college is but not many people take the time to break down why the college experience is important. College changed my life for the better. We have to push our youth and explain why they need to succeed. We need to let then know that love isn’t going anywhere. 

Having someone to confide in is very important but listening is even more important. People give out million dollar advice everyday but on a small percentage listen and an even smaller percentage pursue the advice. Don’t despise wise words. Those words can alter your path forever, just as sleeping with the wrong individual can tie you to that person forever.

I share my experience with you with the hope that you can learn from my mistakes and realize if you’re jacked up now you don’t have to stay that way. We all have choices. Even if it’s only one small voice that’s telling you that you’re special, hold on to that voice until it becomes the loudest voice in your life.

Love yourself first,

Sincerely,
The Inspiration Educator 

If I Were a Poor Black Kid – Written by a White Guy

Before you go off about what this white guy has to say, write down all his suggestions for educating yourself. He makes some good points. Enjoy!!!!

Written by – Gene Marks, Contributor
Forbes.com

President Obama gave an excellent speech last week in Kansas about inequality in America.

“This is the defining issue of our time.” He said. “This is a make-or-break moment for the middle class, and for all those who are fighting to get into the middle class. Because what’s at stake is whether this will be a country where working people can earn enough to raise a family, build a modest savings, own a home, secure their retirement.”

He’s right. The spread between rich and poor has gotten wider over the decades. And the opportunities for the 99% have become harder to realize.

The President’s speech got me thinking. My kids are no smarter than similar kids their age from the inner city. My kids have it much easier than their counterparts from West Philadelphia. The world is not fair to those kids mainly because they had the misfortune of being born two miles away into a more difficult part of the world and with a skin color that makes realizing the opportunities that the President spoke about that much harder. This is a fact. In 2011.

I am not a poor black kid. I am a middle aged white guy who comes from a middle class white background. So life was easier for me. But that doesn’t mean that the prospects are impossible for those kids from the inner city. It doesn’t mean that there are no opportunities for them. Or that the 1% control the world and the rest of us have to fight over the scraps left behind. I don’t believe that. I believe that everyone in this country has a chance to succeed. Still. In 2011. Even a poor black kid in West Philadelphia.

It takes brains. It takes hard work. It takes a little luck. And a little help from others. It takes the ability and the know-how to use the resources that are available. Like technology. As a person who sells and has worked with technology all my life I also know this.

If I was a poor black kid I would first and most importantly work to make sure I got the best grades possible. I would make it my #1 priority to be able to read sufficiently. I wouldn’t care if I was a student at the worst public middle school in the worst inner city. Even the worst have their best. And the very best students, even at the worst schools, have more opportunities. Getting good grades is the key to having more options. With good grades you can choose different, better paths. If you do poorly in school, particularly in a lousy school, you’re severely limiting the limited opportunities you have.

Read more here

Words of Wisdom – Dalai Lama

“We find that if a person lives a very selfish life and is never concerned about the welfare of others, he will have few friends, and people will not take much notice of him. At the time of his death, there will not be many people who will regret his passing. Some deceptive and negative persons may be very powerful and wealthy, and therefore some people- for economic reasons and so forth- might portray themselves as friends, but they will speak against such person behind their back. When these negative person die, these very same “friends” may rejoice at their death.

“On the other hand, many people mourn and regret the death of a person who is

very kind and always altruistic and who works for the benefit of others. We

find that altruism, as well as the person who possesses it, is regarded as the friend of all, and it becomes the object of veneration and respect by others.”– His Holiness the Dalai Lama, from “Path to Bliss: A Practical Guide to Stages of Meditation”, published by Snow Lion Publications