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Look What I Found – Parents’ Guide to Kindergarten Success
The time of year most of us feared as kids is upon us. Now we have kids and I’m pretty sure they are feeling anxious about what their teachers will be telling us. No matter what the outcome, we have to assure our kiddies that we are here to help them succeed in school. We also have to let them know that they won’t be the best at every subject. And, that’s ok!
Check out this guide by the National PTA. It gives advice for talking to your child’s teacher and what you should expect your child to learn in Kindergarten.
Did you hear about this?
Viola Davis addresses the comments made by New York Times writer who recently said she was “less classically beautiful.” Last week, in an article that received plenty of backlash, Times writer Alessandra Stanley not only critiqued Davis’ looks but also referred to Shonda Rhimes as an angry black woman.
My 2 cents
This is apart of why when I see a brown skin little girl I go the extra mile to tell her she’s beautiful and amazing. I’ve seen society ignore brown girls until they have an ass and chest, only then are we considered attractive to the world. To those that think this way I say kiss my black a$$. There is more to life than being pretty.
There are plenty of beautiful useless folks in the world. They’re being used as someone’s trophy. Please teach your daughters how to love themselves and how to handle this cynical world we live in. Let them know that they can bring more than sex appeal to this world. They can change it.
“Being a dark-skinned black woman, you heard it from the womb. And “classically not beautiful” is a fancy term for saying ugly. And denouncing you. And erasing you. Now … it worked when I was younger. It no longer works for me now. It’s about teaching a culture how to treat you. Because at the end of the day, you define you.”
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Next Level Thinking
Morning Move Makers – One of the most effective prayers I’ve prayed is for God to surround me with people that would get me to the next level of thinking, opportunity, spirituality. That prayer alone has brought increase into my life. My message to you is don’t just pray for God to remove the bad people; Pray that he puts you in the presence of so many exceptional people you don’t have time for the negative ones.
But, Mommy! No Excuses Approach to Life
Nothing boils my blood more than someone making excuse and not owning their missteps. This is a huge lesson in my house. I tell The kids all the time to either own it or be quiet and help correct it. People’s first reaction is to blame or deny. If you did it just say “I’ll work to do better.” “I apologize.” “I’ll fix it.” “I’m sorry for making you feel that way.” Or just say “My bad.” Admitting you did something wrong doesn’t make you weak. It makes you human and a lot easier to deal with.







