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Goal Setting for Kids – How to Help Your Kids Get Ahead

Goal setting may be something new to kids,  but just like brushing their teeth or studying every day, we want goal setting to be a habit for them.  So since they’re just starting out, it’s important to keep in mind that the emphasis should be on the process itself, not just on the end result which is the achievement of goals.  The idea with goal setting for kids is to get them started in the life-long frame of mind for thinking, planning and taking action to achieve results.

Goal setting tips
Make it easy on yourself. Start out with a simple, easily achieved Goal. Here’s an example of a process which can be replicated to any level:

1) Find an easy goal which can be expressed clearly e.g. “After one month, I would have saved $15 so I can buy a Nerf Super Soaker.”

2) Have your child write this on a piece of paper, you could stick a picture of the toy next to the words, and stick it up on the wall where it can be seen everyday.

3) Prepare a savings jar and have him/her calculate that they need to save 50c a day for 30 days to achieve their goal. It will help if you set aside the coins from the start.

4) Think of a special surprise for them if they manage to stick to the plan and achieve the goal.

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Locked in a Room with a Zombie Review

When my best friend said “I want to do something different for my birthday”, I knew we were all in for a treat. This woman never disappoints when it comes to events. And a night out with the girls is always filled with adventure. No boring chicks over here.
 In a group text we got the message “I want us ALL to do this activity called “Locked in a room with zombie.” 
Zombie! Room! Locked! Isn’t Halloween over, I thought, but in my group of girlfriends the birthday girl always wins. 
She sent out the details to purchase tickets online. Bucket List Productions, the brains behind the zombie room, was nice enough to add a 10:30pm show just for us. Bucket List Productions has been putting on this performance for over a year, Travelling to more than 20 cities. 
That made me feel a little better. Someone would’ve shut them down by now if the zombie had actually bitten someone like the disclaimer warns. 

We all made it safe and sound to 400 s. Michigan Chicago, IL. The location wasn’t exactly covered in flashing lights. You could easily miss the kindergarten construction paper slapped on the door that read, “Enter here for Locked in a Room with a Zombie.”
The girls night out was in action. The host, a charming performer that entertained us with what sounded like a creative British accent, set the tone for the night. 
He gave us the deets on the crazed zombie we paid $30 to be attacked by and ran down the rules. No punching, slapping or spitting on the zombie, no phones, no pictures of the zombie. Nothing too ridiculous.
It was time to get locked in for an hour with a zombie. One of the girls quickly began to second guess her decision to be apart of the theatrics. “YOLO, you’ve seen much worse than a zombie,” I told her. 
Any who we headed into the room, huddled up like a group of Rugrats scared but ready for an adventure. 
And that’s when it happened…
Haha did you think I was going to tell you what happened in the room. Nope you’ve got to go yourself 
Enter at your own risk 💀💀💀

3 Things You Can Do to Celebrate MLK Day

1. Visit DuSable Museum’s 2015 King Day!
740 East 56th Place
Chicago, Illinois 60637
Date: Monday, January 19, 2015
Time: 10:00am – 5:00pm
Cost: $10 per person
Reflecting on the Dream—Programming for the entire family
The King Day Read On – Powerful Civil Rights passages read by invited Chicago Community Leaders, media personalities, and concerned citizens.
A Legacy for America’s Children, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. – Musical Narrative Play performed by Joan Collaso.
Reflecting on the Dream: Black Lives Matter – Students from several Chicago based Colleges and Universities discuss poignant questions affecting the Black Community.
Arts and Crafts and much more.
2. Go to the Chicago History Museum for The MLK Project: The Fight for Civil Rights
1601 North Clark St.
Chicago, Ill. 60614
Date: January 19, 2015
Time: 10:30 a.m.
Cost: Free
A special Martin Luther King, Jr. Day public performance will take place and also includes a post-show community discussion. This dynamic, cross-cultural, multi-media performance interlaces personal interviews of Chicago-based Civil Rights activists, featuring both celebrated and unsung heroes of the Movement. Audience members will also receive free museum admission for the remainder of the day.

3. Go See Selma 
SELMA is the story of a movement. The film chronicles the tumultuous three-month period in 1965, when Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. led a dangerous campaign to secure equal voting rights in the face of violent opposition. The epic march from Selma to Montgomery culminated in President Johnson (Tom Wilkinson) signing the Voting Rights Act of 1965, one of the most significant victories for the civil rights movement.  
Visit the website for movie locations

Better Days Are Coming

I hear these suicide stories and I just wish they would’ve believed that a better day was coming. 

Instead of always criticizing each other we have to drop loads of encouragement on each other. Life isn’t easy for some. It’s an up hill battle for stability. 

Be the sunshine in someone life today. Even if they don’t look like they’re going through anything tell them “You got this!” #peptalk #staymotivated #antimeangirl #winning

Why We Need to Celebrate Ava DuVernay

Ava DuVernay, the Golden Globe nominated director of #Selma, is someone we all should know. Even if you’re not a history buff or activist you need to know that she is the First Black Woman to be nominated for a Golden Globe. In 2015, she is the first.

 At the 2012 Sundance Film Festival, DuVernay won the Best Director Prize for her second feature film Middle of Nowhere, becoming the first African-American woman to win the award. It’s kind of a big deal. 
This gives us all hope that our great ideas and efforts haven’t been accomplished by someone else. There is still time for us to be great. 
We must root for our fellow trailblazer. I don’t think we can want to achieve success without celebrating the sacrifices and accomplishments of others. Isn’t that was Selma is all about? Acknowledging the strategic and heroic march that was the catalyst for legislative change. 
Tune in to the Golden Globes Sunday, January 11th on ABC. 
Follow Ava on Instagram @DirectHer 

Yes Hunny, People Admire You

We are all teachers. How we act and react teaches others how to do the same. That’s a lot of pressure right! Someone always watching us, analyzing our every move – waiting for us to mess up. I have two particular people that watch my every move daily. It’s crazy how kids can’t remember to put the toilet seat down, but remember if you cursed out the UPS man – I didn’t do that, it’s just an example. (Don’t side eye me)

I don’t think my kids or the people that are watching you are waiting for us to mess up. They are actually waiting to see how we do it right. Yes sweetheart, there are a bunch of people that admire you. 

We are all far from perfect, each trying to find our own way – but why not share the little lessons we’ve learned along the way. 

Girl someone needs that broken hearted love story, career plan or exercise regime you figured out. Don’t hold on to that good info. Release it into the world, with the hope it improves this gorgeously confusing place.

Yep it takes a lot of patience to teach but you and the person you’re teaching will be happier in the end.

Keep Teaching!

About the contributor:

Chanel is the founder of MommyMakinMoves.com and full time brand marketing professional. She is the lipstick, book and accessory obsessed mom of an energetic kindergartener and fabulous big sister to a creative pre-teen. Find Her on Twitter @MommyMakinMoves

The Hand That Rocks the Cradle Is the Hand That Rules the World

    Our work matters. Motherhood isn’t something every woman experiences or even wants to experience. We are moms by choice! We have decided to love endlessly, lead fearlessly and commit whole heartedly. And for that hunny we are special. William Ross Wallace had us in mind when he wrote this masterpiece of a poem. Many of us have heard the title, but it’s the meat of the poem that drives the message home.
    Blessings on the hand of women!
    Angels guard its strength and grace,
    In the palace, cottage, hovel,
    Oh, no matter where the place;
    Would that never storms assailed it,
    Rainbows ever gently curled;
    For the hand that rocks the cradle
    Is the hand that rules the world.
    Infancy’s the tender fountain,
    Power may with beauty flow,
    Mother’s first to guide the streamlets,
    From them souls unresting grow–
    Grow on for the good or evil,
    Sunshine streamed or evil hurled;
    For the hand that rocks the cradle
    Is the hand that rules the world.
    Woman, how divine your mission
    Here upon our natal sod!
    Keep, oh, keep the young heart open
    Always to the breath of God!
    All true trophies of the ages
    Are from mother-love impearled;
    For the hand that rocks the cradle
    Is the hand that rules the world.
    Blessings on the hand of women!
    Fathers, sons, and daughters cry,
    And the sacred song is mingled
    With the worship in the sky–
    Mingles where no tempest darkens,
    Rainbows evermore are hurled;
    For the hand that rocks the cradle
    Is the hand that rules the world.

    William Ross Wallace

Marie Claire Change Your Life Guide

All it takes is a few encouraging words to spark a master plan. I’ve written my 2015 personal, professional, parenting and relationship goals. (Don’t judge me, I’m obsessed with goal setting).
Now it’s time to plan and execute! 
Every great execution plan requires research. Marie Claire came right on time. It’s some really good info about freelance consulting, tech gadgets, fancy clothes and advice from well known successful women.
I’m so glad  I took that inconvenient online survey with an incentive to receive a year of free magazines. God knew I needed some fresh reading material. He worked that thang out for me. Winning!!!
What’s your fav magazine for career, relationship and parenting advice?
About the contributor:

Chanel is the founder of MommyMakinMoves.com and full time brand marketing professional. She is the lipstick, book and accessory obsessed mom of an energetic kindergartener and fabulous big sister to a creative pre-teen. Find Her on Twitter @MommyMakinMoves

10 Free Learning Websites {For Kids}

10 Free Learning Websites {For Kids}

Here’s a list of some fun, educational and fun safe websites for your child to visit and explore on those cold winter days!
Switcheroo Zoo
Watch, listen and play games to learn all about amazing animals.
Fun Brain
Play games while practicing math and reading skills.
Nat Geo for Kids
Learn all about geography and fascination animals.
PBS Kids
Hang out with your favorite characters all while learning.
Into the Book
Go “into the book” to play games that practice reading strategies.
Star Fall
Practice your phonics skills with these read-along stories.
Seussville
Read, play games and hang out with Dr. Seuss and his friends.
Storyline Online
Have some of your favorite stories read to you by movie stars.
ABC Ya
Practice math and reading skills all while playing fun games.
Highlights Kids
Read, play games and conduct cool science experiments!

About the contributor:

Chanel is the founder of MommyMakinMoves.com and full time brand marketing professional. She is the lipstick, book and accessory obsessed mom of an energetic kindergartener and fabulous big sister to a creative pre-teen. Find Her on Twitter @MommyMakinMoves