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My Fav Business Savy Mommy Makin Moves: Kris Jenner
Everyone has something to say about the Kardashians. Rather you hate or love them you can’t deny the business savyness of Momager Kris Jenner. She’s taken her daughter’s passion for fashion and turned it into a media, fashion and endorsement empire.
Good, bad and ugly the Kardashians are just like any other family. They’ve figured out what works for them, I’m taking a note and figuring out what works best for my family.
Check out Kris Jenner’s Interview with Lee Hawkins of the Wall Street Journal.
Fix it or Flaunt it? 3 Tips for Being Comfortable in Your Skin
Some forms of wisdom come from living life and other forms we’re just born with. I was just thinking about how I became so confident. Then it dawned on me, I’m just that type of person that’s not concerned with what other people think of me.
I remember back in 7th 8th grade we would roast people in our class. We joked about the boy that couldn’t read, the not so attractive girl, the boy that looked like a rat, the fat dude, and I was the black ass big lip girl…LOL..
My mom always said I was pretty. She taught me to have my own style and voice. She made me be comfortable in my own skin. Clearly, I’m brown skinned and I have big lips. My defense mechanism was knowing that the world saw these things as flaws. I already knew the insults people would have before they did. In a sense it made me more confident. I know ALL my cons (according to the world) but I am well aware of my pros.
3 Tips for Being Comfortable in Your Skin
1.) That thing or things that you believe are horrible, embrace it. Tyra Banks once said on America’s Next Top Model, you can either fix it or flaunt it. We often end up looking more ridiculous trying to fix or hide our flaws than just flaunting them. You’ve seen the Hollywood chicks that look extra scary now because they just couldn’t accept their beautiful flaws.
2.) Tell yourself how beautiful you are. I know it sounds basic but it’s true. So many of us invest so much energy into others that we forget to stop and say “Girl, you’re beautiful” Look those flaws in the eye and say “You will not hold me back”.
3.) Surround yourself with positive people. These days it seems hard to find people looking on the bright side but they’re out there. You don’t need people pointing out what’s wrong with you 24/7 (That’s never helped any one’s self esteem.) Hang around people that are comfortable in their skin and encourage you to be comfortable in yours. I remember having a friend that would run if you said the word skirt. She felt her legs where too skinny. I didn’t say “girl, you’re right you’ll look whack as hell in that.” I told her she’d look amazing in a skirt. Let’s just say we can’t get her out of dresses and skirts now.
Do you have a story about your journey becoming comfortable in your skin. Please share with us. chanel@bgrise2power.com
3 Tips to Develop a Positive Mindset for Achievement
At some point in your life you have to roll up your sleeves to get dirty and immersed in hard work. Not every blessing will fall in your lap effortlessly. Take your progress seriously. So many wonder why other’s are in better situations. They probably bust their butt to get where they are, They may pray when you don’t feel like it and work when you said your tired. Don’t complain about what you don’t have if you aren’t willing to do what’s necessary to get what you want. – Go Get Your Blessings…
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3 Tips to Develop a Positive
Mindset for Achievement
Mindset for Achievement
- Accept responsibility: You are powerful beyond measure. You are full of potential that you haven’t began to access because you haven’t been challenged to use those skills. Accept that you are equipped to progress. Don’t back down from challenges. It’s ok not to know something, but it is not ok to go on being ignorant. There is a book and a google search for everything. Do the research…
- Be willing to take risk: Not every opportunity will be simple. You must be willing and ready to move on an opportunity. Many opportunities present themselves before we THINK we’re ready. Truth is you’ll never know until you try.
- Make your atmosphere positive: It’s a bit difficult for a rose to flourish in concrete. Make your world a haven for your ambition. Those around you should feed you encouragement. Not just by pumping your head up (that’s nice too) but by their actions. Find inspiration from your friends and family. Inspirations is everywhere. Find it and use it to keep pushing towards your goals. Witnessing others overcome tough situations will give you courage to keep moving in your journey.
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Find a nice spot to chill with your date or significant other
Dates can be a bit awkward even for married folks. Today when women grossly out number men, no woman wants to sit in a nightlife establishment out numbered with her man. Not saying that all women are gunning for your man but it’s about relaxing and having a good time.My husband and I have checked out a few spots but nothing really stuck. The crowds where either too old, too young or the places too expensive.
Many of the best places aren’t advertised, making it harder to find these neighborhood gems. Luckily we found one by following a popular Chicago comedian Torris Brown. We found Linger Martini Bar 4142 West 167th Street Oak Forest, IL 60452.
Laugh Out Loud Wednesday is powered by What’s Funny Live and offers a FREE comedy show weekly. You pay for nothing but delicious drinks (reasonable prices). We always have our choice of bar seating or floor seating (never standing room only). There is even a after party…
Soooo, this is our spot!!! Every couple needs one. Great for a midweek get away from the kids and out the house. Just chill out and enjoy each others company.
If you have a place that you frequent, please share it with us in the comment section of this post.
South Suburban Business Mixer: July 22nd 2012, 6PM-8PM
New Yahoo CEO Marissa Mayer: Mommy Makin Major Moves
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| New Yahoo CEO Marissa Mayer was the first female engineer hired at Google in 1999, where she became one of the company’s top executives and most visible public faces. Only 37, Mayer has often been named one of the most powerful women in business. Mayer spoke here at at TechCrunch Disrupt NYC in May 2012. |
“You can be good at technology and like fashion and art. You can be good at technology and be a jock. You can be good at technology and be a mom. You can do it your way, on your terms.” – Marissa Mayer
Congrats on the Pregnant newly appointed CEO of Yahoo!
Read more about this mommy makin moves mission to restore the former internet giant.
(CNN) — Google’s first female engineer, Marissa Mayer, has made a career out of bucking expectations — and she did so once again on Monday by announcing she will leave Google to be the new CEO of Yahoo, the struggling company that once was Google’s main competitor.
The tech world reacted with shock to the news. But it’s perhaps time everyone got used to the idea that Mayer, who was Google’s 20th employee and who is credited with the success of many of its most famous products, isn’t the kind of person who does only what people expect her to do.
“There is such a stereotype of the hacker — the pasty-skinned guy with the thick glasses, the pocket protector, the blue glow coming off of the monitor … people think if they’re going to be good at this, that’s what they need to be,” Mayer told CNN in an interview earlier this year.
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Message to the Youth from T.I: The things we don’t have are a reflection of what we don’t know – T.I
Mid Week Free Event: Laugh Out Loud Wednesday at Linger Martini Bar
WHATS FUNNY LIVE presents Tomorrow at the LINGER MARTINI BAR ****A SPECIAL EVENT**** National Headliner GERALD KELLY FROM THE BRONX, NEW YORK. The hottest Wednesday night Comedy Show/Afterparty just got HOTTER! Beautiful PPL, hilarious Comedians and Drink Specials — This event will reach capacity. Doors open at 7pm-Show starts at 9pm…..Get there EARLY!!! Hosted by one of Chicago’s funniest Comedians Torris Brown featuring sounds by DJ Mike
Linger Martini is a beautiful lounge great for couples or a simple night out with your friends. Free admission, very reasonable drink prices and plenty of seating room.
The Mr. and I will be there front and center.
See you Wednesday!!!
Gerald Kelly Comedy Clip
Monday Motivation: When the going gets tough do you start crying or running
Think and Grow Rich: A Black Choice is one of my favorite books of all time. To read something that documents the lives of black folks that pulled themselves up by the boot straps to create massive amounts of wealth for themselves gives me chills.
Not sure about you but I don’t have many rich uncles (no rich uncle) that share their rise to power. Books are the relatives and friends we wish we had. Every one’s complaining about the state of black America and our dependence of celebrity influences. Well those are the people sharing their success stories. For example: If someone in my neighbor hood is great at investment, they probably don’t want to make that public. Lessons are so much better when they come from someone we trust but not many are sharing their personal success stories.
The reality is the people that have the knowledge hold it hostage.
Enough of my ranting. My point is we don’t have to wait on anyone to give us knowledge because it is ALWAYS ready and available to us.
Taken from Think and Grow Rich: A Black Choice
How Persistent are You?
Here are a number of questions that will allow you to measure yourself against this all important element. Answer these questions openly and honestly in order to uncover those areas of your life where you may lack persistence.
1. Reflecting on my life , can I cite specific cases where I have achieved something of note simply because I persisted?
2. Do I persist in my occupation or line of work?
3. Do I persist in the area of personal development?
4. Do I confront my obstacles or shrink from them?
After you answer these questions honestly write down what you need to do to move forward. It won’t happen over night but you have made a breakthrough by admitting you need help.
Mommy Making Moves by LaChanel Hemphill 