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Spending Money Like There is No Tomorrow – How Many Are Saving for the Future?

Disclaimer: I am in no way a financial expert, nor am I perfect with my spending habits. As I evalute my spending habits I can’t help to wonder if others have the same issues, concerns, complaints and ignorance as myself.

I’m very passionate about self education, so I’ll read anything anywhere pertaining to improving life as a whole but one thing that really stumps me is investing. I’m familiar with the real estate market but I’m still lost as to where I’m suppose to get the money from to invest in property. All I hear people saying is save, save, save, spend less and invest. That all sounds really great if you can move in with family members for a while or you have a two person income. What about all the people that encounter hardship everyday. Everyday is a rainy day when you’re hustling your way to the top.

The reality for many people is that our credit is jacked up by the time we’re 25 because our parents couldn’t help us with college or with our careers. If you’ve been to college you know how credit card companies sworm the campus looking for financially uneducated freshmans to apply for lines of credit.

Actually, I didnt have this problem because my credit was done before I hit college. A few of my friends took advantage of the credit cards because they had single parents that couldn’t afford to send them money for college expenses. What’s a college student to do? CHARGE IT!

Not the wises decision but when you’re hungry or need gas to get home what are your options. I can’t even remember how many jobs I had while in college just to try to get 20 hours a week. College is not a walk in the park, you have to hustle just as hard in college as you have to on the streets of Chicago. Don’t let the Degree fool you, attaining a degree isn’t easy but it’s worth it.

So fast forward, now you have a decent career but you have a bus load of debt, college loans and family financial issues. What’s the next step? Well I’m asking you because this is where I am in my life.

Happy Mother’s Day – 12 Gift Idea’s that Any Mom Would Love

Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children.

                                                                      ~ William Makepeace Thackeray

                  I believe Sophia Loren said it best, “When you become a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. You always have to think twice; once for yourself and once for your child.” Being a mother takes an extreme amount of dedication and hard work; therefore, every day is really mother’s day if you ask me. 
With Mother’s Day right around the corner, here are several gift ideas that will be sure to put a smile on any mom’s face. Hopefully, you will take advantage of this time, because some ideas require a reservation or a bit more mullah.  
  • Go to church with her
  • Bake her something tasty
  • Create a heartfelt poem or painting (bring out the inner Picasso or Maya Angelou out)
  • Start a Pandora bracelet
  • If the weather permits, then plan a picnic
  • Make or Buy a card that express your unconditional love for her
  • Take her for a night on the town (be her personal tour)
  • Send something to her workplace (it could be something as simple as flowers or a pair of tickets to an upcoming event)
  • For that candle lover of yours, add to her collection (try Pacifica or anything from Bath and Body Works)
  • A gift card to her favorite venue is always a great options for the mothers that are a bit picky.
  •  Relax and join your mom on a spa day retreat.
  • Take a weekend road trip to her favorite establishment (e.g. Sweetie Pies, Chicago’s Chicken & Waffles, etc.)

However you choose to spend May 12, the most important thing is that you that you show your love and appreciation for that special woman/women who gave you life and/or helped you experienced it to the fullest.

Posted by MommyMakinMoves Contributor
Chantelle A. Kelly 

Beware of Dream Killers

Don’t fear above average thinking! It’s ok to want more out of life and the greatest accomplishments start as simple ideas. I talk to people that are afraid to dream because they are surrounded by dream killers. It pisses me off – No one has the authority to kill a dream, especially those that wouldn’t lift a finger to help achieve the dream anyway.

Dream and Act on those dreams like your life depends on it.

Mommy Owned Business Shout Out

You know I’m all for supporting Mommy Owned businesses. Lover’s Paradise Boutique in Country Club Hills , IL has everything your HoTT Nights Need.

19060 Crawford Ave.
Country club hills, IL 60478
http://Luv-paradise.com

For My Grown Women: Unleash your inner Vixen with dance: Burlesque, Lap Dance, Twerk dance instruction parties are the new “IT” events. Perfect for girls night, bachelorette parties or just something fresh and fun. Host your private party at Lover’s Paradise Boutique in Country Club Hills. Call to book your private party 1708-957-3300
(10 person minimum required)

Your Dreams Matter! Struggle with a Smile

Morning Move Makers – Life is for the living. Trying to survive often becomes the goal of the week, hell the day for many of us! Know that those Wishes in your head matter. Those places you wish to go and people you hope to meet can happen. Unfortunately nothing is easy so your dreams require work, faith and direction. The greatest successes came after struggle. Don’t give up, your dreams are waiting on you!

MommyMakinMoves Kudos from Supporter

Danny and Dior

From MommyMakinMoves Danni M. – Before I became a mom I didn’t realize all it takes to be a mother. In order to be a good parent you have to put in work, love, attention, time, compassion and the list goes on. All of this while still growing/ maturing into your own. Grooming to be the woman you’re destined to be. With that being said as a mother it’s easy to forget to eat because you’re focused onmaking sure the kids ate, put your wants and pleasures aside to make sure your child has all they need. Pass on your free time to help with homework and give affection. In so many words its easy to give so much to pour in your child/ren that you forget to replenish yourself. I’m so grateful for mommymakinmoves.com, it’s all about empowering mothers, it’s ok to be a mom on the move! Taking care of business and taking care of home but remembering to take care of yourself. Many of my fbf are mothers and I see your hustle and the wonderful mothers you all strive to be. Along your journey if you need some encouraging words, advice,or just that push when the going gets tough check out this site. Lets encourage each other as the beautiful hard working moms on the move. Happy Saturday!

Live from the Black Women’s Expo

I brought my beautiful little sister along for this amazing Expo to expose her to women Makin Moves.

It’s important for her to know she is great and women that look like her are doing great things daily.

Say hi if you see me in this floral jumper LOL

Get Your Mind Right in the AM

Morning Reading – What better way to get your mind right about family, work and personal life. Essence Magazine has my favorite twins on the cover, Tia and Tamera. They have working mommyhood. I just love it! That’s my go to read on my Nook tablet this morning.

Alright, I have to run my Metra Train stop is approaching.

Have an awesome day ladies!!!

As Lil Reese would say “We about that action.” (It’s a Chicago thing)